The Rule of thumb is, if you ignore him, you’ll get his attention!! As simple as that!! 1. He needs to Notice your Existance I commented on him in front of him, he definitely didn’t like it! 2. Now that he knows I exist, I ignored him Everyone likes attention; they’d like to be noticed. So in order to let me know he exists, he added me on FB :D 3. Draw attention, while you still ignore him. Well while he looked for my attention, I’d ignore it, post statuses on my likes and dislikes, pictures on where I am, btw the check in is a bliss! Social sites sure did make it easy for me, it took about 2 days, till I start seeing the same songs being uploaded, while bumping into the checked in places, definitely not coincidence is it? 4. Somehow looked like he played the same trick on me This was a bummer! Not it seemed like he was ignoring me, while I was secretly stalking him … 5. One date with this other guy, one move made!! So I pitched in a info on going on a date with this dude, having fun, thou single and yet looking, through a friend.. :P (this never fails, u’ll get to know whether he is interested or not) 6. He invites me for a coffee date  A messages pops up, “Why don’t you drop by Java, I’d like to talk to you regarding a project I have been thinking off, you might be interested” 7. Sounding not to excited, I say oh okay.. giving him the time and day I’m free  so that he can adjust to my schedule 8. Things were easy after that, 2 weeks after frequently meeting him, I realized, he only looks good, and decided to move on… Well this probably works both ways, I’d definitely look for his attention if I know I’m being ignored by him....