I have 5000 friends on my Facebook and I get only few likes like 5-10. What’s up with that?

Really? They are your fake friends not real friends! 😁

झट्ट हेर्दा सामान्य देखिए पनि यो तेती सामान्य बिसए होइन । ५००० साथी बाट ५ १० likes पाउनु भनेको तपाई "social " हुन नसक्नुको उपज हो । social नहुनु भनेको अरुले नबोली आफुले " conversation स्टार्ट " गर्न नसक्नु , कोहि संग सहयोग माग्न नसक्नु , साथी भाई बनाउन नसक्नु हो । यो खालको बानि ब्येहोराले तपाइलाई पारिबारिक , सामाजिक देखि work culture मा समेत प्रभाब पार्छ ।

समानताको सिद्धान्त अनुसार तपाईका साथीहरुका पोस्टहरुमा तपाईले react गर्नु भाको भए उनीहरुले नि तपाईका पोस्टआ react गरि हाल्छन , एसको मतलब तपाई FB मा कसैको पोस्टमा केहि प्रतिक्रिया दिनु हुन्न । येसोरी एकलकाटे बन्नु हुन्न , सबै संग कुनै न कुनै किसिमले सम्पर्कमा रही रहनु पर्छ । धेरै अवस्थामा आफै proactive भएर conversation स्टार्ट गर्नु पर्छ । कुरा गर्न केहि कुरै नभए नि हि, हेल्लो सम्म भए नि गर्नु पर्छ । एसले सामाजिक , ब्यबसायिक , व्यक्तिगत जीवन सहज बनाउछ ।

Sometimes I am a little overwhelmed when I get too many likes. It can put pressure on you to get more likes in the next posts. I get likes from people that I have never spoken to. We are friends because of my family background. Usually, they are from my mom's village or dad's village. Although I know of them, I don't know them personally. In my view, it is not the number of likes that matter, it matters that people you care like them.

And, I agree with baje that you also need to be proactive at times.