why are all these guys commenting and giving their biased views about nepali girls??? listen all you guys out there, you are no different from any nepali girls, you think nepali girls have attitudes then its your fault to understant it that wa. Nepali are very beautiful, kind, and honest girls. and its just you who behave different with them, that makes you think differernt about girls.
not only nepali girls, but even americans wont like you if you show attitiudes and think you are the most handsome hunk around them. We girls dont like guys who want every girl to treat them special, if we dont like anyone we just wont, no matter how hard you try we wont give a s*** about all those guys, and that is the reason you comment about girls

All of you want us to be a "sati sabitri", and someone who will stay at home and take care of you, and do whatever you say, but things are differnt and america is different, we have lot of things to worry about and boys, relationships are not our priority. We have careers, education, family back home who we need to take care of.
You guys just come and talk to us like you have never seen a girls before, give us a break you all, just change the way you all think about nepali girls....

O mamta ji, ke ho bahyena ni ......nam bhane mamta, kam bhane man ma ek rati pani maya nabhaye jasto. did you eat too much khursani before writing that ? leave it guys are guys

u are right Mamta. i was also thinking about it . u boys have nothing to do or what. why all the time u guys r trying to prove that nepali girls are bad? mind ur bussiness guys.

tei ta chha timi haru ra hami ma farak................whether we r in america or in nepal we are the same n u girls change yourselves where u go ...u forget ur culture n start making white beaus, coz they dont give a shit to u emotionally but just do that stuff.....

mamta i agree with you too.
as long as guys get whatever they want and the girls do whatever the guy says........ everything is good. As soon as you do something against them, then they are westernized, americanized, and that we have attitudes. Can't a girl think for themself? is making a decision on their own, going against their guy, or having their own opinion a wrong thing? why does that make one americanized??? and make them look like they have attitude problems? Why does a guy feel like that the girl is acting all that just coz they came to US?

get a life!!!

Guys don't change is plain BS and you know it!!! it's not only the girls..
everyone who wants to forgets their culture....they can do whatever they want. Guys are not all that great as you paint it out ot be tregor.....they forget just as easily as anyone else. Guys are allowed more freedom than girls...so what now if a girl acts like a guy...what's wrong with it. Do what you want..if you don't like it..don't look at em..dont bother em coz they're not bother u

Mamta has raised an issue that needs to be addressed properly. I also saw at least a few discussion where the sole intention was solely to lower a Nepali girl's self esteem.

Did you guys and gals forget that you will be eventually married to the opposite?

TREGOR,
you know why american guys fall for us? its because we have our culture combined with honesty, hardwork in us . People have to change with time. you came to america with big dreams to be successful, and make lot of money so that our family back in nepal will live a good life and its same with us. We want to be successful, make money, and above that we can handle families and husbands. we have lots of qualities that a woman should have. you guys just know how to go after girls and comment on what they wear, how they look whereas we do not have time even to look at guys and talk about them and comment on them.

a feminist movement is picking up, eh! keep it up, ladies...

Mamta,
don't dig too deep,

First I am neither supporting your nor opposing you because I had some arguments like this with a girl personally. She was saying like what's wrong if a nepali girl goes to club and go out with white/black guys? I din't oppose it, coz I had no answer and knew I would do that with girls too. BUT tell me who will be willing to marry that girl? We also love to have a nepali girl to spend our life with who is already in the US. And as long as there are girls who are still nepali from behavior, girls like I mentined fall under the second choice.
And you said American guys fall for nepalese girls? I don't think it is because of the answer you gave.
American guys are so sick. In fact, if nepalese guys adopt culture, honesty and hardwork, it is more likely that girls from the rest of the world would fall on them. It is my experience.

nepalisaila,
i would have to second u on "American guys are so sick. In fact, if nepalese guys adopt culture, honesty and hardwork, it is more likely that girls from the rest of the world would fall on them."

but aren't u getting stringent on rules for girls (O: . I sense a big "dbl standard" cooking there. [ who would lyk to get married to a girl going to club? how about guys going to club? same difference from another view (o:]

mamta and AeutiKT
i would give u an example of how "MAJORITY of FEMALE" change once coming to STATES. if somebody speaks to them in Nepali they would answer in ENGLISH. [ wow!!!. as if one forgot NEPALI the minute they LANDED in US.] Reflect this in your own life how many times u have done that honestly and u would figure out whether u really changed or not.]

As for me .. OLD IS GOLD (O: .... ppl still say that i speak exactly the same way I did 10 yrs ago. Prolly coz I have not undergone morphosis or may be did not get incubated with amicable ambience (O: required for "so called" transformation.

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as always,
what do i know (O:

I talk in english..coz i don't know nepali...i got americanized ..oh no what should i do..???
should i jump off the bridge right now ??

Cerine,
do u remember the phrase "BIG FAR LIAR" (O: or is it JUST A MOVIE?

did u really forget ENGLISH (O: oh oh .. suppose to be NEPALI??

Did u really forget NEPALI ???? u did!! huh then who was i talking to NEPALI YESTERDAY?
(O: .
You know what I mean and do not PLAY LINGO to JUST PROVE THE POINT. U KNOW WHAT I MEAN and WHAT girls DO!

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just for u
what else do I KNOW? (O:
me being a person below average IQ as well (O:

LIARRR LIARRR PANTS ON FIREE...!!!!!

i did reply in english :-P
replay everything and u'll find out!!

and now my question is there again

cerine dear,
u can jump off the bridge and I will be there to catch u with my ARMS WIDE OPEN.

what say u ? (O:

there is always a middle ground where everybody wins (O:
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but as always
what do i know (O:
hoina ta...

hyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa....

why can't u just say what i want to hear :s

c guys.. this is what happens (O:

by HOOK OR CROOK FEMALE WINS..
so, if U WANT PEACE IN UR HOUSE JUST FOLLOW THE MASTER....

cerine dear,
all right U SHOULD NOT JUMP...... okey.. U FORGOT.. I BELIEVE.. I LOST ...

BHAYO AABA (O: NOT IN A MOOD TO DEBATE

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what else do i know (O:

:s

u're just plain weird!!!
that is not what i wanted to hear !!! Arrrgghhh !!!

but u lost!!! yaayayyyyyy!!!

Go study Mr.!!!! don't look at the craps I write in here :s

सरइन, त त खतम र‍इछस।

translate if u are writing to me..if not ..fine :-)
peace