Today, I went to this indian restaurent with my friends for lunch. As we all know there are lots of Nepali daju bhai and didi baini working to meet their ends while they are in school. I was with my friends and enjoying my friends all of a sudden i head somebody saying in a loud voice" OYE BAHADUR COME HERE. YE KYA FOOD TO THANDA HAI". I was so shocked him talking that way to my fellow nepali. I just got up and said to Gentelman, "EXCUSE ME SIR WHY DID YOU SAY HIM BAHADUR ? CAN'T YOU SAY EXCUSE ME . HAVE U SEEN HIM KILLING BEAR. TIGER OR HAVE HE DONE SOME GALANTARY THAT U ARE SAYING THAT WAY. HE ANSWERS. WELL WE SAY THAT WAY TO NEPALI PPL IN INDIA. I TOLD HIM BUT ARE U IN INDIA? HE SAYS WE SAY THAT SO I SAID IT. I TOLD HIM THATS NOT A WAY. WE GOT IN HEATED EXCHANGE AND COPS WERE CALLED. WE TALKED AND OFFICER UNDERSTAND WHAT IT WAS ALL ABOUT. HE WAS REALLY UNDERSTANDING HE SAID TO THIS INDIAN GUY, U MAY SAY THAT IN UR COUNTRY BUT RITE NOW U ARE IN USA SO DO AS WE DO. IT MEANS U CANNOT DISRESPECT ANYBODY AND U CANNOTS EXPECT LESS THAN THAT EITHER."
WHEN I TALK THIS ABOUT SOME OF MY FRIENDS THEY ARE SAYING THAT I WENT OVERBOARD. DO YOU GUYS THINK I OVER REACTED?
LET ME KNOW.

LadyCroft: I am waiting for the ticket....
As SweetP said, his middle name might be Bahadur.My middle name is Raj and I love it when people call me Raj (even if it's because they find my first and last name harder to pronounce).
I only hope that the waiter still has his job.
DP.

SweetP you missed the whole point !!! Please read Swati's original post again and recomment.
Peace

DP ; hajur ko ticket bato ma audai cha. Aile Thamel pugyo re. :D:D:D

Ok this whole discussion is getting really pathetic. Everbody who has interaction with INdians, Imean from India (excluding Indians in Nepal), use the word Bahadur to Nepalese with racially explicit manner refering to them as guards and gate keepers.

Arguing, that this might be different is simply idiotic or u r just sucking up to them.

I am against any sort of racism no matter what. Here the racism is against one of my own creed. How long we would keep our mouth shut and take what it comes.

We are aliens and there is no job security even to the locals, remember that.

Still waiting for the ticket....Lady Hajur..