How can one love another?

Original Quote
If you love someone, Set her free... If she comes back, she's yours, If she doesn't, she never was....
The new versions.....
Pessimist:
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If you love someone, Set her free ... If she ever comes back, she's yours, If she doesn't, as expected, she never was
Optimist:
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If you love someone, Set her free ... Don't worry, she will come back.
Suspicious:
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If you love someone, Set her free ... If she ever comes back, ask her why.
Impatient:
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If you love someone, Set her free ... If she doesn't come back within some time forget her.
Patient:
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If you love someone, Set her free ... If she doesn't come back, continue to wait until she comes back ...
Playful:
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If you love someone, Set her free ... * If she comes back, and if you love her still, set her free again, repeat *
C++ Programmer:
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if(you-love(m_she)) m_she.free() if(m_she == NULL) m_she= new CShe;
Animal-Rights Activist:
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If you love someone, Set her free, In fact, all living creatures deserve to be free!!
Lawyers:
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If you love someone, Set her free, Clause 1a of Paragraph 13a-1 in the Second Amendment of the Matrimonial Freedom Act clearly states that...
Bill Gates :
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If you love someone, Set her free, If she comes back, I think we can charge her for re-installation fees but tell her that she's also going to get an upgrade.
Biologist :
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If you love someone, Set her free, She'll evolve.
Statisticians : (Apte)
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If you love someone, Set her free, If she loves you, the probability of her coming back is high If she doesn't, your relation was improbable anyway.
Schwarzenegger's fans:
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If you love someone, Set her free, SHE'LL BE BACK!
Over possessive person
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If you love someone don't set her free.
HR specialist
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If you love someone set her free by Offering her VRS and other benefits Then outsource her.
MBA
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If you love someone set her free instantaneously and look for others simultaneously
Psychologist
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If you love someone set her free If she comes back her super ego is dominant If she doesn't come back her id is supreme If she doesn't go, she must be crazy.
Somnabulist
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If you love someone set her free If she comes back it's a nightmare If she doesn't, you must be dreaming.
ERP functional expert
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If you love someone set her free If she comes back, map her into your system If she doesn't, carry out a gap-fit analysis
Finance expert
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If you love someone set her free If she comes back, its time to look for fresh loans If she doesn't, write her off as an asset gone bad.
Marketing Specialist
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If you love someone set her free If she comes back she has brand loyalty If she doesn't, reposition the brand in new market

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We Met upon the Internet

We met upon the Internet,
A friendship electronic,
Expressed alone in words and thoughts,
Inevitably platonic.
We live too far apart for us
To mingle in the flesh,
But much more close than family,
Our hearts and feelings mesh.

Your dear, dear self reveals itself
Without a voice or face.
We have our own sweet home within
Our precious cyberspace.
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>Nepeda you sound very sweet writing about love rather than writing about Republism. :d

परन्तु, भगिनी (sis) प्रिय, यो ज्येष्ठ भ्राता (bro) ले गणतन्त्र र प्रेमतन्त्रलाई उहि र उस्तै कठोर, निर्मम र वस्तुवादी (objective) चक्षुले हेरेको छ त । कसरी स्वादमा त्यत्रो फरक प-यो होला ?

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>If you love someone, Set her free...
>If she comes back, she's yours,
>If she doesn't, she never was....

प्रेमको लोकप्रिय किन्तु अपूर्ण अवधारणाहरुको यो एउटा राम्रो उदाहरण हो । यो अवधारणा "मौलिक" उपखण्डको प्रेमभूमिमा सिमित छ र यसले "जवाफी" उपखण्डको प्रेमभूमिलाई चिन्न ईन्कार गर्छ ।

प्रेमीको हरेक क्रियाले "जवाफी प्रेम" लाई तत्काल, प्रत्यक्ष र बलियोसंग र "मौलिक प्रेम" लाई कालान्तरमा, अप्रत्यक्ष र कम बलपूर्वक प्रभाव पार्दछ भन्ने कुराप्रति माथिको कथन पूर्ण अनभिज्ञ रहेको छ ।

प्रेमीले आफ्नो प्रेमीद्वारा आफुलाई छोड्न सक्नु र छोड्न नसक्नुलाई अलग अलग अर्थमा बुझ्दछन् भन्ने कुराको ज्ञान छैन यसमा, यसैले अपूर्ण छ यो ।

परन्तु, Nepalipoonte ले पोस्ट गरेका ठट्यौलीहरुमा भने कतै कतै यो ज्ञान निहित छ र समग्रमा, प्रेमको यौगिक स्वरुपको पुष्टि भएको छ- ठट्टा नै सहि, प्रतिक्रियाको विविधताद्वारा ।

Just came something in my mind when I was thinking about the question of "setting your beloved free".

When it is not about testing the beloved, it can be profoundly testing yourself. A poem from Shiva Gautam, my dear friend and occasional visitor of Sajha at least one time in the past.

वाह वाह , वाह वाह !!!

If you don't even know how to love another, you are scum of the Earth. It's a feeling that should come naturally to you. If you lack it, go seek a doctor. You have learned to post a question on sajha and you haven't learned to love another yet? Loving another person is the first thing you should have learned after learning to feed on your mothers milk.

Strange but the question is so stupid.