म एक समाजसेबी महिला जसले नेपाल मा महिला अधिकार, बाल अधिकार, महिला सशक्तिकरण, महिला-पुरुष बिच विद्यमान असमानता, व्यक्तिको स्वतन्त्रता र मौलिक अधिकार, समानता र सामाजिक विभेदमा न्यूनिकरण, महिलाको जीवनस्तर वृद्धि जस्ता सामाजिक कार्य रात दिन काम गर्दे आउदा पनि मलाई india जाऊ अनिता यादव भन्ने जमात ठूलो रहेछ । जानिजानि होस् वा अनजानमै होस् मैले नेपालको शिर कहिल्लै झुक्न दिइन । मलाई त एस्तो आरोप आउछ भने अरुलाई के होला । मस्तिष्कमा लगाएको यो घृणा रुपी घाउ निको हुन पुस्तौं पुस्ता लाग्न सक्छ ।

लौ भन्नुहोस म बिशुद्ध नेपाली हुन के गर्न पर्ने हो ? अरुलाई गाली गरेर राष्ट्रवादी भइँदैन । धोती र टोपीको बिचको लडाईं ले हामी सबै नेपाली एकदिन धोती न टोपीको हुन्छौ। दुख लाग्छ, यो देश मा टोपी लगाउने बिदेसी नेपाली भए तर म जस्तो महिला जसले देश र जनताका लागि दिलो ज्यान अर्पण गर्दे पुस्तौं पुस्ता देखि काम गर्दा पनि नेपाली बन्न सकिएन ।
म त एउटा पढे लेखेको महिला एथार्थ बुझ्न सक्छु तर यी तिखा सब्द र बोलीको शक्तिले समाजमा हजारौ शत्रुहरू जन्माउनेछन् । अन्धकार ले अन्धकार हटाउन सक्दैन ; केवल प्रकाश ले मात्र सक्छ त्यस्तै घृणा ले घृणा हटाउन सक्दैन; केवल प्रेम ले मात्र हटाउन सक्छ । आउनुहोस हात मा हात मिलाउ अझ पनि समय छ देश लाइ बचाउने ।

People are wondering how they are going to cook tonight dinner. People are worried about how they are going to get medicines for their ill ones. People are walking miles just to reach their home. Kids haven't seen the school for more than 100 days & you are bitching here about how you are being treated. Great!

Despite enjoying 8 years in Shital Niwas you are talking like you have been discriminated all this time. Irony!

I completely understand what you are saying. There are bigots in each and every society and ours is not an exception.

On the other hand, since you come across as a sincere and serious person, can you with all the network you may have get some good journalists down south and investigate the situation? There isn't one report that can be trusted. Some say it is an indian blockade, some say it is morcha. What is the truth? May be if general nepalese from pahad knew the real factor why their daily situation is getting harder, we might not see this kind of hatred.
This is the moment to stand out of the normal crowd.

Yes like hurray said do something that's worth mentioning here. Like go to Madhesh and explain what's good and bad about the constitution. Organize a youth seminar or round table discussion or hold a meeting with locals. Research and Understand the situation. Madhes says govt media is biased and I am saying Madhesh media is biased & anti pahad.

How about a issuing a strong word of criticism towards whoever is fueling the current situation of crisis? I personally have a lot of respect for Mr Ram Baran Yadav for balanced appraoch he always took in national issues and potrayed himself as a nepali rather than madhesi.
You can do the same too and perhaps contribute to opposition of this filthy politics.

come on miss anu !! your r bringing facebook fight to sajha ??? I don't know even the context why u r shouting here lol ! we don't like facebook ! that's why we r in sajha total anonymous ( we know tracking though :) like i said i will defend you the bully in sajha cuz u have balls as unique brave madeshi woman to come up with real identity to voice up nepal related matter but if u shout here without context what happend in facebook, not good miss not good !let me give u the clue , if pahadiya called u names in facebook, probably their rice was uncooked and mad, here in sajha it is more about usa nepal related and we have 24 hrs. energy supply all the time! we just fart out we don't eat raw anything here except sushi, so cool your head will ya ? all in jest hai i really like u tesaile k ;

yadavanu, Cut all the Bull$hit and tell us what the [Disallowed String for - banned word] do you want? Just in 2 line without putting filler words, tell us what you want?

Attention attention

Folks let's all remember that we respect everyone's right to express their opinions in sajha. Please feel free to discuss in a civil manner.

San,
I never knew that you only catered to high-profile sajha contributors. This discussion hasn't even degenerated like it usually does here in sajha, and you are here already to calm things down. Wow, what's the "dau" here? Is it to be recognized by Anu just in case one day she becomes a high-profile personality in Nepal?

@SAN users are posting nude pictures, you never reminded civil manner now when President daughter is on your business site , you learned civil manner and trying to preach sajha users.. good job buddy keep it up, hope she will invite you in her wedding

@Hurray and @thukka

How many female posters are in sajha?
How many people post with their own identities?

Yes I would like people to be civil to everyone but more so when they are representing their own identities.

@San,
dont be much diplomatic, you are smart and lucky too, sajha.com is popular all over with all gender and age which you can not hide it, and users have complained sajha is being almost a porn site too, did you say any words, there are users came with their real name too and I did not see you passing by among sajha users

please do not take it serious, this is just my feelings poured out to you, there should be always civil manners and respect each other regardless whether the real name or user name since we are in an open forum, all our family and friends are reading and sharing information in sajha

@San,
In my opinion, hurray and thukka have a point. I've been using sajha for three months and I've seen many threads and posts dedicated to objectifying and demeaning women. It was very disappointing that you didn't disapprove them. And here we are, this thread is far more civil than some of those perpetual filthy threads, and you are expressing resentment. It is bound to make us wonder why.

@San,
This is quiet disappointing. I hope you are not serious. Like everybody said, Sajha has become a site for porn, discrimination, racism, casteism, sexism, religious freaks spreading lies to stir hate and fear with blatant attack on other people's faith. I can dig out a thread from the past with good number of response on human having sex with donkeys with a VIDEO. There is everything on sajha, you name it.

This thread should be the last of your concern. You have lot of thread worse than this if you want to clean your site. Sounds "favoritism" on this thread. 

Guys, when people use anonymous nicknames then they feel empowered to do all that you have pointed out. As you can imagine it is difficult to draw the line at freedom of speech. It is my hope that users will work their differences out.

But, I feel that, when someone is using their own identity, they should not be attacked because it is not fair to them. Please be assured that if you were using your own identity and someone attacked you using an anonymous nickname, I would speak in your favor too.

Anita yadav,

I heard your " haat ma haat milau"

Please be specific on whose hand needs to to shaken with whom and what are the conditions for that?

I have seen too much of this generic " lets get together, lets get together, lets be nice to each other" but never once anyone has said what they are asking for and what the givers are not giving out.

What does madhes and madhesi want? please dont reply with a vague answer of...that they want "rights"

Are you in support of moving the states lines according to India's convenience? So that the rest of the country will be always held hostage with a blockade if the Indian puppets do not get what their owners want off of Nepal?

Where is Nas bro these days. Topi bhanne bitikaii Nas ko yad ayyo. No doubt no1 promoter of Sajha has been Nas, for all these years.

यो देश मा टोपी लगाउने बिदेसी नेपाली भए. Whats your point Anita ji, are you telling that all those who wear Nepali topi are bideshii ? kehi bidesii lekeko bhaya ramro hunthiyo and you already are Nepali by birth and heart.

Until and unless Madeshi medias stop making differences between pahad and terai (madesh) nothing is going to change. I agree with Mangales word , I am also saying Madhesh media is biased & anti pahad.

"Please be assured that if you were using your own identity and someone attacked you using an anonymous nickname, I would speak in your favor too."

http://test.sajha.com/sajha/html/index.cfm?StartRow=1&PageNum=1&threadid=115298

How about this? It is just one example. I know you might not be able to defend each and every one but that does not mean you support the privileged ones who are only seeking attention and are nothing but wannabes.