We have been in love since 1/2 decade. I have been working here in Us since 4 yrs. I went to Nepal couple years ago to see her. At that time everything was fine. I was planning to go back to country on end of this march to get married with my beloved, my heart. But I don'w know when and how the things went wrong. My heart and I were fighting and making love till today. I can't say my girl friend anymore now, she  just got  married. She left me broken heart. I called her today but couldn't reach her coz her cell phone was switched off. My herat is totally broken in tiny pieces even can't write here. I'm just expecting some healing suggestion to forget my heart and those golden moment that we had shared. Please No offensive word. I wish I could write more about my distance love that made us seperate now. 

                      Can you please friends share your experience and opinion here so I can heal my broken heart.

 It's ok bro.She didn't deserve u.If she really had loved you she would have waited for you.
feri you can always find a new girl friend for yourself.Remeber the process of falling in love again.i think that is the most beautiful phase of love and you got a chance to go through it again.You are single,enjoy the life.

No offence .. but I simply call u a  (wo)man  without balls. 

wait, what?? you were making love over the phone?? this is where things went wrong my friend! get laid ASAP!

Spyglass I truly empathize with you. That feeling is so difficult to get over and it affects your each and every existence. What you have to come to terms with is that there are so many things that are worse than that. Take some time to list worse things that can happen to you or your loved ones. Or remember how many people in the world go through worse things than you ever breathing moment.

It is difficult time and no word is going to help you for a little while but you can keep trying to push that thought aside as soon as it starts gnawing at you. If you keep on doing it, it will stop on it's track soon.

most of the gals are biatch...same thing happened to me...time will heal everything ................get new girl friend ...but do not fall in  love straight away..

you could not reach her means ...she is ignoring u...there will be no sound when u try to clap with one hand.....she have found right hand to clap ...may be u should also try to find ur right....it will take time ...but u will find one...there are 7 billion ppl in this world ....just put ur self busy.

 spyglass, i feel for you bro. bad things like this happen, don't let yourself down. it's good that you found out about her before you went to Nepal. now stop calling her "my girlfriend" because she's not. she betrayed you, married someone else, and is sharing bed with that person. There's no point in being sad thinking about her; consider her a filthy whore/golddigger. That doesn't mean all females are bad; there are a lot of good women out there looking for a trustworthy guy like you. Just take things lightly and hope for the best. Sooner or later, you'll find someone better.

• In order to forget one biatch you should get another girl.
• Engage/occupy yourself with close friends/family and look fwd for new possible dates.
• Share your stuff with family/closed friends. You need to speek up and share your feelings.thought. Dont ever think that you can gracefully handle yuour situatiion. Get help.
  
• Avoid sad songs. Remove the stuff that reminds you of her.
• De-friend her from facebook. Stop cyber stalking her or any means of communication with her.
  
• Re-iterating: Go and get a new girl.

~GoodLuck

I am sorry for you. There must be some reason for it. It's shocking that everyone here is rushing to call 'b' word to the girl. Would you still call her the same if she happens to be your relative? The thread reflects the part of our society. I am not saying that girl may not be at fault, but we don't know the complete story, yet all are portraying only girl as the bad person.

Spyglass,

I am just curious how old you are and how old your Ex was and what were your plans to be with her?

@sidster, what kind of question is that? 

spyglass 
i m sorry to hear that.....i know ,  no words will comfort your heart...wait for the time overall.....just want to say 

"someday someone will walk into your life and make you realise why it never worked out with anyone else (or her)."                              
everything  happen for a reason.....smile and cheer up :)) ..happiness alz !!

@ nepcha -  i agree with you !!

Firts of all Thank you all friends for your input. I heartly appreciate.

@sidster. I'm now 29 and my girls is 27. There is nothing speical plant to be with my gf. Actually I alwyas assume her as my life partner. Even we used to call oursleves husband and wife. She used to call me "my buda." That word still making echo around me.  I used to take her family as my family. I send $4000 for her sister's study in her request couple month ago.  

@Nepchai, I will never call her that word because I always loved her from bottom of my heart. I will just pray god for her betterment and better future.

@dalluko sanu, you can't be that much bad........... as you said............

Don't worry friend I started driniking............. but that worked only untill 2 pm. I'm again tensed............. but i'm fine.............. I'm not gonna do anything insane..........
 

Some facts for you:

Regarding your loss: Nobody wants to hear this, but sometimes…the person you want most is the person you're best without.
Regarding your emotions and feeelings: All emotional pain lasts for 12 minutes anything longer is self inflicted.

~GoodLuck

spygalss, I have a solution for you. Just pretend that your girl firend has never got married and you are still in relationship with her. Pretend that everything is same as you had few months back. But just don't try to call her, don't bring her talk with your friends. Just make yourself believe that you have postponed your marriage for one more year and you cannot talk anymore with your GF till next year. Do lots of exercise for few weeks or a month to exhaust yourself and avoid bringing unnecessary thoughts in your mind.
Then suddenly next year when it is time to break your silence and when you are ready for marriage realize that she had left you a year ago and you have lived happily without her for one year. You will find your life better and free of reponsibility. You will know you wont need her anymore.
The science behind this is it helps in secretion of brain monoamine oxidase A (MAO-A) — (an enzyme that contributes to depression) slowly in your brain which avoids depression down the road.

 Spyglass:
Th esimplest way: Goto strip club or anywhere u can buy girl to make love ,  make love