I want to ask you guys abt what you would do if the person you love begins to change. I mean my guy doesn't talk like before. He talks so less that I feel very miserable. We are having a long distance relationship and there is so much of communication gap. He knows that I feel this way and still is not trying at all from his side. Do you think that there is any other way I can try solve this problem? You might say that I should forget about this guy and go separate ways but that is not possible in my case because we are engaged and getting married after few months. Can you suggest something please? Thanks you so much!

My suggestion:
Hey love is not about distance, it is about communication and there is no thumb rule for falling in or off love, it is totally different for different ppl. I do have a distance relation ship first ma ali ali problem thyo tara i know that she is the woman for me, and we guys are like that like rubberband tara if the love is true we come back, there is a difference betn girls we like or love and the girls who loves us. I have not found a girl who loves me more than this one. I have seen more beautiful and more intelligent girls but it doesn't matter, I don't want to be in a relationship because some one is beautiful or a smart ass . I want to be in relation with someone who loves me cares for me and waits for me. Who dreams about me, sleep with my thoughts and keep track of all my things, calls me even if i am rude to her, they say it is good to be apart and dream to be together than to be together and want to be separate.
If ur dude is not behaving good for some time give him sometime i am sure he will be back(he will not be back if he doesn't love you) . Guys are like that for reference read Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus (if you already had u might be knowing this)
i wish u luck with ur love life, take ur time give ur bf time and everything will be perfect(the so called perfect).

I QUOTE:

"I want to be in relation with someone who loves me cares for me and waits for me. Who dreams about me, sleep with my thoughts and keep track of all my things, calls me "even if i am rude to her", they say it is good to be apart and dream to be together than to be together and want to be separate."

Do you see the "even if i am rude to her" - there is your key- we men are selfish bastards. So that may be one explanation. Another one might be that he may be getting cold-feet about the marriage. Giving up freedom is a big deal. He just needs time and your understanding attitude now. No questions and kich kich should do it.

Cheers!

ReSoLuTe-SpiRiT -"we men are selfish bastards". Hats off to you.

This thread makes my conviction for men even more stronger. Priya, Distance relationship seldom works but your case is different. But if someone out here is in distance relationship wake up before it is too late. Local resources are aplenty. Why do we need to go and search for Mr.Right in some other city, country, continent or planet?Just convince yourself that "Mr. Right" thingie does not exist in real world. "Men are selfish bastards" , I would like to quote Mr.Spirit here. So learn to live with this or just kick them out of your life.Stop complaining. You could definitely live without them, that I can guarantee you.

is priya ur real name? i think i know you

ReSoLuTe-SpiRiT
Quoting is well done still it is half side of the story, her story will complete the remaining half and in this state of anonymity we just have the first half.

Well you can't alway listen to your heart!! You need to also use your brain sometimes!! :D

Sometimes? Pfft. There are three things you need to use in a R/S. ;]

long distance relationship cost more ;-P

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And where is she (misspriya)? She threw a thread and fully 'gayeb'. Is that storey was real? either she is waiting for best solution or she fully left with srong decision. What is yr opinion?

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I have long distance with my wife...
We live in the same house....
We chat in computers .....
She is upstairs .........
and I am downstairs.............
I send her SMS .........
She opens the Balcony doors........
I call her over Mobile ..............
She is watching desperatley wives..
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But we are still very close........
Most of the time we are closed..
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Hi guys!!!

Thanks a lot for your advise, suggestions, opinions....I really appreciate that...and I will definitely consider many of your advices while making my decision....sometimes I wish I was strong enough to let this thing go but then heart rules!!! I've decided that I will once again talk to him about all this face to face...we are going to meet after two weeks...as i've mentioned to you guys that we've already discussed abt this matter before but it did not seem to be of much help...I mean to say that he is still quiet and not trying much from his side....so I think it's better to meet in person and explain him properly abt my feelings...and try to sort this thing out together....I really want to marry him so I thought over and over again and came to this conclusion that I will try my best to make it happen....I hope that he'll understand my situation and make a lil effort for our relationship to prosper... I'll hope for the best and prepare for the worst...anyways, all of you have been of great help....thank you once again :)
Wish me luck guys!!!

wow another one hahaha...:P
SAN bro, isn't it high time we created a separate section for relationship threads huh? haha...

and ImI,
you really think from your heart these days? that's quite a news then. hahaha....don't tell us tomorrow, you've started to think from your leather GUN hahahahahahaha :P

rUINa,
nicely said and i concur! :P

mispriya,
as someone said, i would also like to hear the OTHER side of the story. i mean just to make it complete so we can suggest you sth concrete.. :P in any case, here's my take,

nothing works, if you (both the partners) don't intend to.
everything works, if you love, trust and care.
it's not the physical distance but the mental/emotional incompatibility that hinders.

don't wait and let things happen. make them happen for you. call him. talk to him...what's the point in sitting idle, speculating and guessing? he is yours so HE has the answers not us-- sajha love pundits! :D

all's well that ends well. a lover has to shrink his/her larger than life EGO and come in front of his/her partner with a torn pocket :P. that's what i believe in.

complex bhandai basyo bhane life ko simple kura pani complex hunchha ni hoina?

all the best to you and to yours!

LooTe
NOT ALL MEN ARE BASTARDS ;P

hahaha..Loote ...you know me too much man!!i am scared:P
hahaha
Ya .i am changed now...hahaha..i just had six packs - Tecate.i know you like it:) :D

Hi Ms Priya
its interestin i guess give one shot from your side ...... its better to try than regret later.........after all........

LOVE is Love.......... and

good luck girl..........