I am curious to know how you feel at the time when you are having sex?I have promised to remain virgin before I will marry to my Mr.Right..is not it good? because of the some rumors that nepalese girls(not married women) living in the United States are kind'a sluts..I would like to prove that still there are some virgins outta here...soundz cool?

ABSOLUTELY---i'm replying to the person who originally wrote the topic and anyone else who thinks girls are sluts if they have sex b4 they get married.

am curious to know how you feel at the time when you are having sex?I have promised to remain virgin before I will marry to my Mr.Right..is not it good? because of the some rumors that nepalese girls(not married women) living in the United States are kind'a sluts..I would like to prove that still there are some virgins outta here...soundz cool?

sORRY absoluetely, read the question wrong. I'm not deffending anyone, i dont think a person who sleeps with someone b4 marrige should be called a "slut".

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Hi scorpiogirl लामोनाकेकिरा बहिनी,

धेरै पर्ख्यो भने भित्र भित्र सडिन्छ,गनाउंछ,किरा लाग्छ,कुहिन्छ,बिग्रीन्छ,
अत्याचार हुन्छ। खाना भनेको समयमनै ताजा ताजा खानु पर्दछ
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Great Scorpio! It's awesome to hear that.

I am Aquarius by the way. You can do a lot of analysis based on my zodiac with respect to yours.

Here is a song that I am singing to myself right now.


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आफु चाहिं स्टाच्यु अफ लिबर्टि भएको देशमा बांचेको छ भनेर फुर्ति गर्ने।आफु संग भएको जाबो सानो हतियारलाइ अंध्यारोमा सास फेर्न पनि उकुस मुकुस गरेर राख्ने यो त भएन अत्याचार भयो। जुनियरमानवको अधिकार हनन् भयो। अति भयो यो त।

परंपराबादि मानव मुर्दाबाद
हामिलाइ सुद्द हावा फेर्न देउ
हामिले छानेको साथि भेट्न देउ

भनेर फेरि भित्र भित्र जुलुस आउला।
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सायमी जी, धेरै टल्काउन खोज्यो भने खिइनदैन र भन्या ? सांचो पो अर्को किन्न पाइन्छ, त्यो त किन्न पाइन्न नि हैन र ? जे होस तपाइको कुरा सोरह आना सत्य हो, म त तपाइको फ्यान भइ सकें

VISHONTAR I like your thought but you know what its too long man make short and sweet like SAYAMI yar अलि नेपालको नेताले देको भाषण जस्तो लाग्यो क्या न रिसाउनु नि फेरि, तपाइ चै कसैले पढ्दैन भनेर लामो दिनु न भएन नि है त

peace

yeah I totally agree with what scropio said,thats a very wrong judgement of calling a womam slut ,just because she has engaged in sexual relationship before. And we dont hear about "man whore" very much in our society,do we?(unless you are talking about the movie european jigaloo,deuce bigaloo). Does that tell a man can have sex with innumerable hookers and still called "gentleman"...cant hard to draw a margin there can we?
So how fair is it to call a woman "slut".And i dont expect I will find a vigin woman while i marry,If i do that,it will be great otherwise not a big deal.I believe in "dont ask dont tell policy".....life is a lot more than your few minutes bed romance...........
hurri

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Do not worry Mr. Hurrycane..!!
Do you think you will wait until there is a Tornado?

We are not in a stone age. Non virgins can be surgically repaired as often as you want. Their broken Hymen can be restored.It is called Hymenoplasty. When I was in Turkey, I came to know a lot about their tradition and marriage customs. In Turkey and other Balkan countries this surgery is practised very often in a daily practice in private hospitals.It is just like son or daughter detection test test in India or china.In Israel and some other arabian country they have to hang up the bloody bedsheet outside the window that everybody can see it. But today even most of the muslim or jews girls had their first one even before their first marriage, they use chicken blood to paint their bed sheet. So in this modern world you can become virgin even you are mother already.
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Hymenoplasty is a surgical procedure designed to repair and reconstruct the thin, ring-like skin membrane partially covering the opening of the vagina, known as the “hymen.” It is made of elastic and fibrous tissue. Bleeding occurs when the hymen tears, which is typically the result of a woman’s first experience with intercourse, so this type of surgery will pull the tissue back together to restore a “virgin-like” quality. On rare instances, a female can unknowingly tear her hymen by inserting a tampon, or during sports like bicycling, horseback riding, or even gymnastics. While the biological function of the hymen is still uncertain, its social function is popularly regarded as a mythical symbol in many cultures. Therefore, qualified plastic surgeons perform hymenoplasty at the request of women who need the surgery for ethnic, cultural, or religious reasons. Patients with the desire for higher sexual satisfaction may also be candidates for this procedure, because the vaginal walls are tightened.
Hymenoplasty generally takes about one to two hours, with patients able to return to work the next day. Restoration of the hymen is done on an outpatient basis, under local anesthesia or sedation. Prior to surgery, patients are required to have a pre-surgical consultation and thorough gynecological examination. During this time, she should communicate her needs and expectations to the doctor, and in turn, will learn of the possible risks and benefits to hymenoplasty.
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Man u are a genius, good research man keep it up. So, no need to worried about scrap while lots of friction huh, good to know that man well done SAYAMI pasa

peace

Sayami, u did not mention the cost of for that sergery things man. I know u will post the whole buchc of research u done, thanx again....so we can be feel free and enjoy life lol

smile

If you decide to remain virgin till you get married, make sure your Mr. Right is also virgin when you marry him.

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Hi Elpida ,

It is impossible to find a Mr. Right with Zero Kilometer in this 21st Century.

Men never tell the truth particularly on this topic including me and Bill Clinton.

Believe me ! Just do not believe me..

My wife still does not know about my original Kilometer of my chip.

She will never know it and she never tries to know it

Because her meter shows misreading as well.

Be free and open to talk....

You will find out more truth about yourself....
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lol, sayami.. i agree.. men usually don't tell the truth, but neither do a lot of women. everyone needs some experience,you need to practice to be good at anything.

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I do not know if they are still virgin.
But nobody knows. It is only them who knows.

Actually who cares?
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who r they?

WHY SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE???
--look at this scenario....

Cerine Ji,

Thank you for warm welcome; long time indeed :)!

Please read my postings in free time, they are worth reading.

Vishontar

Scorpiomam, I agree with you. In the scenario you have mentioned, it is hard to control oneself especially in the west. I am a practical man and I know what happens in real life. However, I won't have sex with my partner until we are committed for the life long relationship no matter how long we have been together. In case if I happen to have sex without commitment, I would take it as a mistake.

I disagree with them who think that the people who has premarital sex are sluts. People make mistakes and those who don't consider it as a mistake are victim of their view. There are many people who believe in different philosophy, and freedom for sex is one of them.

I have repeatedly been saying that virginity is not important, what really important is the person and his/her view. If the person see no harm in sexual freedom, he/she is wrongly viewed person, don't ever get associated with him/her unless you feel the same way. You don't know how much psychological torture you will get if you come to know that your partner is committing sexual misconduct. I have been repeatedly saying that it brings a great psychological turmoil. Even if you are doing sexual misconduct yourself you will not be able to stop the jealousy if you find your partner is doing the same..... as you can not stop anger and lust you will not able to stop jealousy; believe me! Such a life will be quite miserable.... You will find hell in life.. This is why wise people condemn sexual misconduct.

If a person have had sex before in his/hers committed relationship and for some reason the relationship failed, don't make big deal out of it. See the heart of the person, which is most important.

If the person had had sex before without commitment and realizes as mistake, forgive him/her and don't make big deal out of it.

Keep one thing always in mind that you live at present moment. You partner should be wise at present; s/he should have right views at present; that is all counts. .. Look for a partner with whom you will live happily...you can live happily with one who is wise and condemn sexual misconduct.. You can never live happily with one who believe there is nothing wrong with sexual misconduct...................

Another fact; don't hide anything with your would be partner about your past. Tell everything good or bad and wrong or right you have done in your past. That will enhance your honor.

I always claim that I speak logically and rationally......

Any doubt mam? :)!

in this 21st century i think its not good to be virgin till u get married................ it sucks bro!!!